Tired of dating deadbeats?

LAPEL is just the dating reboot you need. We connect you to men with high standards for themselves - just like you have for yourself.

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for a membership

LAPEL's typical male member:

  • Is 26-44 years old
  • Recently completed training at top medical, law, engineering, or business schools
  • Often includes young surgeons, investment bankers, management consultants, accountants, attorneys, entrepreneurs, software developers, medical device sales professionals, marketing executives, etc.
  • Earns an annual income of $100k+ (required for male membership)

What does LAPEL offer you?

Access

To a pool of pre-screened men with verified income, education, and occupation

Exclusivity

Only a small percentage of women who apply ultimately attain membership

Simplicity

Thanks to your off-line LAPEL Concierge

Freedom & Control

Accept or decline date requests from vetted and successful male matches

Six Date Categories

Ensure an engaging and fun first date

Chivalry Meter

Rate your dates!

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Dates to anticipate:


Table for two

The Dating Game

Something's Brewing

Recreational Affairs

Cultural Encounters

The Perfect Pair