How It Works

Six simple steps to get your match

1. Sign up

Register to tell us about yourself

2. Membership Approval

We do the work of filtering qualified candidates

3. Guy makes the first move

Men propose date time and type

4. Matchmaker magic

We're looking for your perfect match

5. Woman receives date request

She can accept or decline

6. It's a date

Don't worry about planning - we've got that covered

Sign up

LAPEL skips the uncomfortable dating profiles. We make signing up for LAPEL simple. Our personal matchmakers will speak with you personally to acquire additional information. Tell us about yourself, and we'll do the rest.

Membership approval

After registering, our matchmaker concierge digs deeper to ensure we're providing our members with the best potential partners. We may be verifying things like income, education, occupation, and desirability. Be ready to send across necessary information, and find time for a video call with your matchmaker concierge.

Guy makes the first move

And who said chivalry was dead? Men make the first move in proposing dates and times for a date.

Matchmaker magic

After gathering background information, conducting a video call, and gathering date and time availabilities - our matchmakers now find the most compatible men and women to pair up.

Woman receives date request

The matchmaker has found a perfect potential match, and sends the woman a date request. She has the ability to accept or decline. All of this remains unknown to either party, to make the process comfortable and pressure-free.

It's a date

Once a woman accepts a request, it's a date. No need for either party to plan or coordinate. Our matchmaker concierge will provide you with all the details you need to know. Your job is to show up, and enjoy your educated and successful potential partner.